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		<title>By: Cody McKibben</title>
		<link>http://www.jetsetcitizen.com/lifestyle-design/stop-telling-normal-persons-guide-personal-success/comment-page-1/#comment-1185</link>
		<dc:creator>Cody McKibben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 00:21:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;The real secret to success is to flip around the ways we derive satisfaction. We need to associate pain with our detrimental short term indulgences and make distant goals seem more tangible and pleasurable.&quot; ? That&#039;s great John!

I love this message, it&#039;s an inspiring ass kicking! And thanks for the shocking visual reminder about smoking. I needed that too. Cheers buddy
.-= Cody McKibben´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thrillingheroics.com/2009/09/quit-trying-to-convert-me-because-it-aint-gonna-happen.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Quit Trying to Convert Me Because It Ain’t Gonna Happen&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The real secret to success is to flip around the ways we derive satisfaction. We need to associate pain with our detrimental short term indulgences and make distant goals seem more tangible and pleasurable.&#8221; ? That&#8217;s great John!</p>
<p>I love this message, it&#8217;s an inspiring ass kicking! And thanks for the shocking visual reminder about smoking. I needed that too. Cheers buddy<br />
.-= Cody McKibben´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.thrillingheroics.com/2009/09/quit-trying-to-convert-me-because-it-aint-gonna-happen.html" rel="nofollow">Quit Trying to Convert Me Because It Ain’t Gonna Happen</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Oscar - freestyle mind</title>
		<link>http://www.jetsetcitizen.com/lifestyle-design/stop-telling-normal-persons-guide-personal-success/comment-page-1/#comment-1110</link>
		<dc:creator>Oscar - freestyle mind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 11:47:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome post John!

I really like your way to make affirmations funny in the beginning of this post and you are absolutely right about the root cause. You also wrote in a way that it was both entertaining and inspiring at the same time. Stumbled!
.-= Oscar - freestyle mind´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FreestyleMind/~3/hGlPgTHmfiA/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;27 Traits Of Successful People&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome post John!</p>
<p>I really like your way to make affirmations funny in the beginning of this post and you are absolutely right about the root cause. You also wrote in a way that it was both entertaining and inspiring at the same time. Stumbled!<br />
.-= Oscar &#8211; freestyle mind´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FreestyleMind/~3/hGlPgTHmfiA/" rel="nofollow">27 Traits Of Successful People</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 05:22:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the kind words Sean. 

It is a difficult trade off; pleasure now or accomplishment in the future? Live for now or do bigger things. Young people tend to say that life is short. However, when you get older you start having regrets because you didn&#039;t make the personal development investments earlier. I am trying to make up for lost time before I reach the stage where I am too old and I tell myself it is not worth it anymore.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the kind words Sean. </p>
<p>It is a difficult trade off; pleasure now or accomplishment in the future? Live for now or do bigger things. Young people tend to say that life is short. However, when you get older you start having regrets because you didn&#8217;t make the personal development investments earlier. I am trying to make up for lost time before I reach the stage where I am too old and I tell myself it is not worth it anymore.</p>
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		<title>By: Carnival of Blogs #3 &#124; Location180</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carnival of Blogs #3 &#124; Location180</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 18:21:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I just this morning came across this article by John over at Jet Set Citizen entitled &#8220;Stop Telling Me What to Do (The Normal Person&#8217;s Guide to Success).&#8221;  It is a fantastic look at why we do so many of the bad things we do, yet seem to struggle [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I just this morning came across this article by John over at Jet Set Citizen entitled &#8220;Stop Telling Me What to Do (The Normal Person&#8217;s Guide to Success).&#8221;  It is a fantastic look at why we do so many of the bad things we do, yet seem to struggle [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Sean</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 18:13:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John, this was one of the more interesting articles I have read lately.  I had never thought about the fact that the bad things in life are the ones that provide instant gratification, whereas many of the good ones are the result of months of hard work.  Yet it is such a simple, and true concept!

To use a little creative thinking and to find a way all good things more enjoyable is a fantastic idea.  How do I make running more enjoyable?  Maybe I just need to do it on a treadmill at an all female gym?  Hmmm, yeah I think that might help...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, this was one of the more interesting articles I have read lately.  I had never thought about the fact that the bad things in life are the ones that provide instant gratification, whereas many of the good ones are the result of months of hard work.  Yet it is such a simple, and true concept!</p>
<p>To use a little creative thinking and to find a way all good things more enjoyable is a fantastic idea.  How do I make running more enjoyable?  Maybe I just need to do it on a treadmill at an all female gym?  Hmmm, yeah I think that might help&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 07:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Neil,

Yes, that is what I keep trying to say when I talk about &quot;passion.&quot; People often have unrealistic expectations about what a good life is supposed to be. It is possible to enjoy everyday activities like work, cleaning, music practice, language learning, etc. Not because those activities are always exciting, but because they can be a form of meditation and personal development.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Neil,</p>
<p>Yes, that is what I keep trying to say when I talk about &#8220;passion.&#8221; People often have unrealistic expectations about what a good life is supposed to be. It is possible to enjoy everyday activities like work, cleaning, music practice, language learning, etc. Not because those activities are always exciting, but because they can be a form of meditation and personal development.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 06:57:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Colin,

Thanks for the great comment. If you are going to die tomorrow than spending your last hours writing a business plan or cleaning your closet seem stupid. However, if you end up living for an extra 50 years, you can&#039;t live everyday like it is your last. Sooner or later you are going to start having regrets. &quot;I wished I started that business I wanted to 20 years ago.&quot; &quot;I could have cleaned my closet out a long time ago and benefited everyday by being able to find things easier.&quot;

My point is that people who live for the now are trading doing even bigger and cooler things in the future. Most people overstate the short-term pleasures and understate the long-term benefits. I am not taking about working in a job you hate for the rest of your life. I am talking about working your ass off to accomplish something you really want. 

I had an employee once who said that life is too short to not do the things he wants. However, he used that excuse to go out drinking every weekend. He had other passions that he always talked about but made barely no effort to accomplish.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Colin,</p>
<p>Thanks for the great comment. If you are going to die tomorrow than spending your last hours writing a business plan or cleaning your closet seem stupid. However, if you end up living for an extra 50 years, you can&#8217;t live everyday like it is your last. Sooner or later you are going to start having regrets. &#8220;I wished I started that business I wanted to 20 years ago.&#8221; &#8220;I could have cleaned my closet out a long time ago and benefited everyday by being able to find things easier.&#8221;</p>
<p>My point is that people who live for the now are trading doing even bigger and cooler things in the future. Most people overstate the short-term pleasures and understate the long-term benefits. I am not taking about working in a job you hate for the rest of your life. I am talking about working your ass off to accomplish something you really want. </p>
<p>I had an employee once who said that life is too short to not do the things he wants. However, he used that excuse to go out drinking every weekend. He had other passions that he always talked about but made barely no effort to accomplish.</p>
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		<title>By: NomadicNeil</title>
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		<dc:creator>NomadicNeil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 00:16:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You can also think about gaining satisfaction from the journey and not just the destination.
.-= NomadicNeil´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.nomadicneil.com/blog/?p=88&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I booked my ticket: Commitment and Consistency&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You can also think about gaining satisfaction from the journey and not just the destination.<br />
.-= NomadicNeil´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.nomadicneil.com/blog/?p=88" rel="nofollow">I booked my ticket: Commitment and Consistency</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 02:37:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesomeeeeeee. I&#039;d like to open up this idea to analyze everything we do. Obviously thought goes into weighing now verses later, but I think when broken down to a mechanical decision, and taking our emotional urge out of it, or better yet, retraining that emotional urge, we will opt for waiting most of the time. 

It makes most clear sense with eating like you&#039;ve portrayed here but it can be applied to so many vital things in life, if only I could have retrained myself to save all the dollars I spent and still spend on hoagies instead of making them myself, I could be making enough compound interest to live off of!! ... relationship decisions, food, shopping, if the world would just take a minute or two longer to think about what they were doing, to calculate whether speeding to avoid being 2 minutes late or stealing that candy bar is worth it...well then...it would be a whole new world.
.-= Robert´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheLifeDesignProject/~3/TT1zutjai3w/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Life Designed &#124; 70 days in, What have I done?!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesomeeeeeee. I&#8217;d like to open up this idea to analyze everything we do. Obviously thought goes into weighing now verses later, but I think when broken down to a mechanical decision, and taking our emotional urge out of it, or better yet, retraining that emotional urge, we will opt for waiting most of the time. </p>
<p>It makes most clear sense with eating like you&#8217;ve portrayed here but it can be applied to so many vital things in life, if only I could have retrained myself to save all the dollars I spent and still spend on hoagies instead of making them myself, I could be making enough compound interest to live off of!! &#8230; relationship decisions, food, shopping, if the world would just take a minute or two longer to think about what they were doing, to calculate whether speeding to avoid being 2 minutes late or stealing that candy bar is worth it&#8230;well then&#8230;it would be a whole new world.<br />
.-= Robert´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheLifeDesignProject/~3/TT1zutjai3w/" rel="nofollow">Life Designed | 70 days in, What have I done?!</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Corbin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Corbin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 04:59:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I loved this post. Spoke very true to me, I have a habit of procrastination. If it weren&#039;t for the big White Board I bought, iwould probably be watching Lost, drinking, or finding some other excuse not to buckledown and work. I keep lists of things that I need to do for that day. And try to include how much time I&#039;m going to dedicate to each of them. If theres no paper I usually resort to the top of my hand. 

For instance: 
1. (30m) Work on 2 blog posts
2 (5m) buy that .com i&#039;ve been meaning to
3.(20m) Setup that photo gallery script
and so on and so forth

I usually end up with about 10 things a day. I rarely finish them all, but theres some sort of satisfaction everytime i get to cross one off. Whenever I actually manage to get everything on my list done, i usually reward myself with a slack day the next day, or partake in some of those distractions we all love so much. 

Love your site, keep up the good work
.-= Corbin´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/IbackpackCanada/~3/pWs9gwm5caU/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to get Free Wifi in Airports&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved this post. Spoke very true to me, I have a habit of procrastination. If it weren&#8217;t for the big White Board I bought, iwould probably be watching Lost, drinking, or finding some other excuse not to buckledown and work. I keep lists of things that I need to do for that day. And try to include how much time I&#8217;m going to dedicate to each of them. If theres no paper I usually resort to the top of my hand. </p>
<p>For instance:<br />
1. (30m) Work on 2 blog posts<br />
2 (5m) buy that .com i&#8217;ve been meaning to<br />
3.(20m) Setup that photo gallery script<br />
and so on and so forth</p>
<p>I usually end up with about 10 things a day. I rarely finish them all, but theres some sort of satisfaction everytime i get to cross one off. Whenever I actually manage to get everything on my list done, i usually reward myself with a slack day the next day, or partake in some of those distractions we all love so much. </p>
<p>Love your site, keep up the good work<br />
.-= Corbin´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/IbackpackCanada/~3/pWs9gwm5caU/" rel="nofollow">How to get Free Wifi in Airports</a> =-.</p>
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